New year, new you, blah, blah blah....??

Its only the 4th of January and I am already bored by the promises of a new year and a new me. These new me's will arrive apparently if I focus on not eating certain foods, or generally any foods, abstaining from alcohol (all types), drinking skinny coffee (????), or promising to religiously take some variety of slimming pill or shake that requires me to part with a significant amount of cash for the privilege.

NOPE.

Am not doing it.

I don't want a new me. However I may want a slightly improved version of me perhaps, or may be not. That is my prerogative.

Achieving the age of 40 (+) has enlightened me to the fact that I am what I choose to be. Should I choose to be a slightly lighter version, then not unsurprisingly I need to eat/drink less and exercise more. Should I require to be more sociable then I will focus on meeting with friends and family a little more. Should I require to be a little more knowledgeable, I will pick up a course or study more.

Life is about taking control of what you want to do or be. Its definitely not about being a version of you that others want to create.

Happy new year and aim to be your version of you in 2018!

Comments

  1. Unknown4 January 2018 at 10:42

    Nice! Agree with you, though tounge in cheek would like to quote Weight Watchers slogan, be the best me!

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  2. sonanka12 January 2018 at 08:03

    thanks! Indeed be the best me!!

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